Thanks Bytsi!
Not yet... I'm going home to NY next weekend to check out venues and hopefully pick something. I'm already a tad overwhelmed... doesn't help that we have a pretty short timeline... about 6 months or so. But where there's a will, there's a way, right?

So let's see if I can get the ring picture to upload... it's much better in person (isn't that always the case?) but this will do.. it's the same one I put on facebook: